Sometimes he makes me so mad. Hi, Unprotected sex gives you a high chance of pregnancy if you are both healthy and fertile. But there's a difference between handling all that well and letting things get way out of whack. I wanted to get an abortion but when i went to my local clinic turns out I was 16 weeks. There is no right answer. If you have the smallest doubt you should not have an abortion.
Maybe both of you believe you are old enough to make decisions for yourselves regarding sex, and maybe legally you are. I dont know if I can live with the regret of an abortion. Although I highly doubt you will become pregnant. There is an interesting story to how I came up with the idea of this mindset. It bothers me when lovely Jamaican girls like you allow guys to turn you into fools. He seems to show efforts of being engaged and accepting responsibility.
A boyfriend is a wonderful thing to have and you should not be so willing to abuse the trust and respect that is the foundation of any good relationship. And he knows i dont like abortion. I have seen first hand how it is for women later when they see their first baby born and wonder about the one they did not have, what it would have looked like and everything. He's not the one who stands to get pregnant. So you should do what's right for you forgetting him. It could be argued that a decent boy wouldn't ask you for sex without certain obligations already established, but that's a discussion for another time. I see that I'm not the only one here who wants a baby.
You see, before you were pregnant your ex boyfriend was probably priority number one. Within this same few days I found out he was texting other girls. Us women have to do whats right for us yes it may be hard raising a child alone however you cannot sacrifice or make adjustments to better suit your other halfs life. Is it because I decided to keep the baby?! Your use of the site indicates your agreement to be bound by the. My Mom was sixteen when she got pregnant with me.
It feels like there's no relationship at all, and I am tired of telling him the same stuff. I can't believe that it might be mine. I hope if you do decide to keep it, your boyfriend will come around. If you want to be responsible with your birth control, they have made it as easy as possible. The baby is a part of you ,your flesh and blood. In an enclosed cup or receptacle such as a rubber bulb or similar anything up to 4 hours or longer. A female reader, , writes 9 November 2010 : I agree with maverick, you both are being careless.
If you only ever have intercourse during the luteal phase, you will not get pregnant. That seems fairly obvious to me: don't visit him. Amazing New Boyfriend a week after the breakup , he saw some old Facebook photos and asked when I broke up with my ex and how serious we were, and I lied and told him we had broken up months ago and didn't talk anymore, and I didn't tell him that we had been engaged. Sure, people do fall head-over-heels, but there's a difference between falling and being tripped. I wanted to leave to a Travel Academy in September, but my plans changed. So I think before abortion, adoption should truly be considered if you feel this is something you are not ready for yet. The problem usually isn't that someone is spending less time with a partner because they love them less; he's probably just struggling to juggle unpredictable duties.
Find a pregnancy help center that can counsel you. This is the ultimate nightmare scenario for women who go through a breakup, being pregnant. Rather than accepting that his life was about to change he decided to run away from this fact and try to preserve the lifestyle he was so used to living. The only reason I am considering is because I love him and I fear forcing him into something he isnt ready for will break us apart. Sometimes the stress of the cost of raising a baby and getting up at all hours during the ni … ght and dealing with colic, diarrhea, etc. My boyfriend said he wanted it too.
I had a job and paid for childcare. Do you like to sleep? Gone are the nights where they can jump from girl to girl having one night stand after one night stand though some pathetic guys still do this. I am now 6 months pregnant and it is the best feeling I have ever experienced. I cannot raise my baby alone, I am disabled and so without his support there is no way I can have this baby. The key is to know that you'll get pregnant when you're supposed to.
In fact in 2004 I had a second child with my partner of five years and he effectively abandoned me. Im very impressed with you decision to keep the baby, i believe that with the kind of optimistic mind you have, you could always find a solution to raise the baby perfectly well,. I guess I didn't want to talk about it and didn't want him to feel like just a rebound. If he tries to get out of it, the prosecuting attorney will take his tax check. I thought I was gonna get my period since I had missed it. Yes, guys can be confusing. Or should I just give up? I would advise against changing your appointment time as that is important.
We had amazing chemistry in the bedroom and outside of it. I crave to hear his voice, but as soon as he starts talking to me, it makes me mad and I wish it could go back to the good times. I've told 4 of my girlfriends and my stepmom they all have mixed feeling but all agree that Ryan would be there no matter what and he is one of the best guys theyve seen me with. What I am about to say now is probably the most important piece of information you will find on this page. Consider adoption if you don't think you can support this child emotionally and financially, but please don't consider abortion.